Grown Man Behavior: A Blueprint For Personal Power

Stop dreaming and let’s get serious about changing your life.

If you’re dedicated to improving in the areas listed below, I can guarantee you’ll be a new man.

But I can’t do it for you.

You must start now!

Select a characteristic and master it, then move on to the next.

If you ignite your passion for self-discovery, nothing can stop you.

Non-Approval seeking Behavior:

• Always express how you truly feel – without apology.

• Don’t expect others to agree with you (and don’t spend time explaining).

• Don’t act overly nice.

• Don’t act needy or wanting in anyway.

• Set your own priorities (and goals).

• Be original and creative (your authentic self).

• Be emotionally and financially independent.

Assertiveness and Decisiveness:

• Maintain eye contact and speak clearly with authority.

• Develop a value and belief system.

• Vigorously and unapologetically pursue your goals.

• Achieve one aspect of your major goal each day. (Do something!)

• Use “I” language (e.g. “I want” or “I feel” statements).

• Ask questions. Listen for answers.

• Learn from mistakes.

• Set time limits to reach decisions or achieve goals.

• Develop confidence.

• Practice making decisions on the spot and often – don’t seem indecisive.

Don’t Fear Anyone:

• It’s your responsibility to provide for yourself.

• By birth, you have the right to live as a free and independent man.

• Your power and energy comes from self-confidence.

• No one can dominate or control you – they must respect you.

• You answer to no one.

Powerful body Language:

• Move SLOWLY.

• Be completely relaxed, confident and comfortable in your own skin, feel no need to rush.

• Make your movements purposeful, focused and directed.

• Stand up straight, display powerful posture – walk with pride and presence.

• Get physically fit; develop above-average power in core areas of your body.

• Breath deeply.

• Eliminate unnecessary gestures, expressions, movements, and reactions.

Create Your Life:

• Be authentic.

• Know what you want in life and how you want to live.

• Live your passions – be fearless!

• Set big goals, reach for the unthinkable.

• Never alter your dreams or goals to please anyone.

• Greet each day with enthusiasm.

• Be social; expand your sphere of influence.

• Accept yourself unconditionally.

• Share your success. Be open and giving.

Keep working on yourself… don’t stop.

Never stop!

Later,

Gary

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