I’m giving you some knowledge so you can turn the situation around, be the man you were meant to be. I’m giving you a dose of hardcore reality.
You were programmed to be feminine. Parental, cultural and social influence are too much for a boy to overcome. Unless you were one of those rare boys that had a strong male role model in his life, you were suffocated by controlling women.
Since childhood you’ve sought the approval of women. In many instances you feared and resented men. Especially those who were masculine and dominant. If a man hurt your loving mother how could he be any good?
Unknowingly, your avoidance of masculinity was a denial of yourself. Your responses were so natural you believed they were of your design, emanating from your deepest self. You thought empathizing with the feminine was a natural response to the rough nature of true manhood. You feared masculinity because you feared yourself.
But hold your head up. You’re on the road to recovery.
You probably blamed fate, bad luck, poor genes, your upbringing, looks, intelligence and lack of money or social status for your failures. You looked everywhere except at yourself. Get a mirror – that’s you!
You followed mommy’s and society’s neat little plan for your life; get an education, get a job, settle for a woman that chooses you, have a kid or two, work forty years, retire and die.
But your little voice has been biting at you, nagging. Maybe it started as a whisper, a faint sensation, growing steadily into a roar. Each day it torments you more than yesterday. A whisper that shouts for change. Do something! Become that man – be great!
Unless you’re completely oblivious to your reality, your dissatisfaction with being average is undeniable. You see other men excelling while you scrape by, wishing, hoping, waiting.
Your frustration brought you to Uptown G; the website for the fearless and free. Specifically, for men that have tried fitting in, being average, and are looking for a way out.
Uptown G is the way.
Listen up because I’m laying out a powerful reality for change and it starts with one word that if truly understood and applied will alter your life in ways you could have never imagined, a word that can alter your personal history.
What is that Word?
That’s right. This is where it starts. If your desire isn’t red-hot, all the logic in the world can’t convince you to make something of yourself.
Everything must take a backseat to your desire. Spend a few minutes each day visualizing your new life. Dream big, don’t limit yourself. Make the seemingly impossible a reality.
It’s a challenge I understand. You’re shaking off years of useless programming, the persistent voices in your head telling you the “right” way to do things, how to live and conform. Don’t struggle with these voices. That only gives them fuel. Outsmart them by recognizing what they are, your fears trying to hold you back.
It’s all you, no one else. Take responsibility for your thoughts and neutralize negativity with positive action.
Listen. Your first desire is to become a masculine man, too remove feminine programming from your thinking. Nothing else matters if you’re not living as a man. Your achievements will be empty.
Discover your true nature
The desire to become a man is your first step. No one will ever give you permission to realize your truth. You must seize it. To hell with everything. Don’t worry about hurting anyone’s feelings and don’t let people slow you up with guilt trips. Stay firm and rugged. Be an asshole if necessary. Don’t worry about getting things right. You don’t have to scream or shout (getting overly emotional is feminine). Stay cool. Don’t let people shake your frame. Calm measured responses are best.
The great running back Jim Brown said he always got up slowly after a play so that his opponents didn’t know if he was hurt or not. This is how you should be. Control your emotions. Stop revealing your feelings to get sympathy or be understood.
Internally remain consistent. Fear nothing – that’s right, keep it 100%. Everything is temporary, never forget this. We are all going to die. Stop looking for a way out, struggling against the inevitable. Let go and live!
Fear is holding you back, it always has. See it for what it is – death. No one can hurt you, take anything from you or give you anything. Stop depending on others for your satisfaction.
Anything given to you is conditional. And the price is always high. Be independent and self-sufficient. That’s true freedom.