Sometimes the realities of life are daunting, causing you to lose focus on what truly matters.
For example, the reasons you wanted to improve yourself can become so obscure that establishing your own reality, and living on your terms, are now vague remembrances of what could have been.
But “real” game never takes a day off, especially when a woman is involved.
No matter how tight you think you are, or the “love” you’re sharing, she won’t let up if your game starts slipping.
Women are natural players. Alas, mercy is not in their DNA. So don’t expect any.
The “queen” you’d have once died for has now become the most vicious of beasts.
Her true nature (selfishness and rage) is revealed on display at your expense.
This is why you must remain vigilant.
Granted, being a man takes a lot of mental strength and endurance. But it’s the necessary price you must pay for progress, and you’re better for it. To think otherwise means you’re commitment is suspect.
The reality of dealing with women, and a lack of game, is the downfall of many men who haven’t discovered who they are and by default don’t understand females.
The villain is usually close, fomenting her treachery from within your inner circle, while undermining your efforts.
But don’t get alarmed, and never emotional. The double-cross is part of human nature. Expect it.
Just don’t let her scheming bring you down.
In this regard, I’m offering a few tips to keep your game tight when dealing with women:
Detach – Control your emotions. Develop an objective, clinical, approach when assessing people and situations. Bypass your limited perspective and learn to see what’s really there.
Know What You Want – Have clear goals and work diligently to make them a reality. Never compromise your dreams. Build a tangible legacy based on your effort.
Put Her To Work – Put your woman to work. Your time is valuable. Therefore, if she wants to be with you, she must move your agenda forward. They’re no exceptions. If she can’t help you in a substantive way, you don’t need her.
Keep Growing – Always keep learning. They’re infinite levels to self-awareness (game). Don’t ever think you know enough and start relaxing. This is when you’re most vulnerable, and there’s always someone looking to capitalize on your blind spots.